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| First Name: |
Linder |
| Location: |
United States of America, Newark, NJ |
| Age: |
31 |
| Birth Date: |
01-01-1981 |
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Hello Dearest ,
I am new to the Dating site and to the Internet, Well to start off my name is Linder, I come from a rare combination, Dad is a Canadian, while mom is Nigerian. My father died since some few years back while i lost my mom recently , I am currently in Nigeria to spend the festive season here and also get some money and properties left to me by my late parents ,I had my education at the De Mont-fort University in Bed ford but after my first year left for the Paul Quinn college in Texas ,I don't really know my father that well because he was always on business trips . My mom passed away weeks back ,after she was attacked by some armed men here in Nigeria , so unfortunately you won't have a chance to meet her in person, yet you'll see her influence in my heart. I speak fluent English and love Reading novels and like different cultures . . Tell me more about yourself, anything at all will do. I like the fact that you are straightforward about the
fact that you are looking for a serious relationship.So many men feel like they have to be in the "I'm not looking for anything serious"mode, because they think that's what women want to hear. Thanks for taking a chance and just showing who you are. So I should probably tell you a little more about me. I consider myself to be very simple. I believe that men needs to be treated with respect and as a equal partner in a relationship, but all I seem to find is the ones that does not know how to respond to that or is entrusting to it. I feel like u should treat somebody with respect and like they are a person not a piece of meat or whatever. I am the type of person who wants somebody to feel wanted not just as a trophy. I am a very affectionate person and I love to cuddle, I like to show somebody how I feel not just telling them. I love to be close to somebody whether it is in the bed on the couch or wherever. I guess my dreams would be is to be happy and
have a family my goals in life I want to go into business for my self one day but that will be a while from now. I guess I want to work on my love life and be happy first. I have always wanted a child of my own and to have a family, but I guess when the time is right it will happen. I like to play sports just as much as I do watching them. Most of all i like to spend time with who I am with, and cuddle up and watch a movie. It is my opinion that we all want the same thing in regards to a partner, and that most of us either do not know how or is scared to and sabotage themselves from getting it. OK, I like the outdoors, but I don't care about hunting or fishing, well I will fish with an UN-baited hook if it means I will get to spend some time with someone I care about. There are a lot of things I like doing as in dancing, cooking, camping, etc. My ultimate goal and what I think would make me happy is to get back on my feet and have a man by my side that
I love and loves me, and children that I can raise and have fun with.I am very relationship oriented and I believe life is too short to waste.When I am in a relationship I am committed, honest, and loyal. I think that falling in love is always a good thing, even if it doesn't work out. There is always something to learn from being with someone, and happy times and memories should be cherished. Friendship comes first for me. That is not to say I never get hurt because I do. I have been burnt so bad. My last relationship ended on a very sad note for me but I do not believe in regrets. I tell you this because I cannot predict the future. For some people a relationship has to be all or nothing...I don't feel that way.It is obvious that I don't know how to keep a good man since I am 27 and never married, but I never in the past nor do I intend to intentionally hurt someone by cheating, mistreating, or abusing them. OK, for my questions to you.What are some
of your goals, hopes and dreams? How long have you been single?Do you have any brothers or sisters? Do you have any kids? If yes, How many? If there is something you want to say but you think you might be rambling or it is not important, it is OK, to me it is important. Well...I see I wrote a novel here, I am looking forward to getting to know you better. I guess I will go for now hope to hear from you soon. I love long messages and i type very fast hoping to read from you , don't you think am American's prettiest gurl lol
Linder xx
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Hello Dearest , Good to read from you,Hope you know that i am presently residing down here in Nigeria at the moment,You seem like you are very down to earth and laid back, and that is good. It's good to see you are affectionate and like showing your feelings. I am the same as well. I believe that partners are 100% equal in a relationship and both should be able to feel they can trust each other 100% at all times. I feel that any woman who ever disrespects a man is not a woman at all. I am affectionate also and I have no trouble showing it for the right man in public or private. I love to cuddle while watching a good movie, when were in bed, I love to hug and kiss my man at anytime and anywhere it could be a store,mall or just on a sidewalk. You are looking for long term, I am looking for something permanent :-) and I know it takes time and a lot of good effort to form a good relationship. I want a man to be my best friend at all times, my sweetheart,
love of my life, my partner and my soul mate all wrapped up into one lovely man. I would be all of that for him and more,I would love him with all of my heart and have nothing but good feelings for him. He should be a very caring person, with a lot of good feelings, be honest, reliable,pleasant personality and have a sense of humor. I am trying not to ramble here for you but I am looking for the "One". What does that mean to me? He is the person that you can't wait until he comes home from work so you can kiss him and sit down and relax in front of the TV or go out and spend an evening together. The person that just calls to see how your day is going but knows that it just got much better because you are talking to each other. He gives you a lift when you are down ...... NOTE: I believe we have lots of chemistry together and with that i believe we could make this friendship a long and lasting one if only we are both ready to give in our best and
ready to take it to the next level.If you do believe we could achieve this together then i will suggest we delete our profile from the dating site where we met so we wont get distracted by other singles? Hope to read from you soon
Linder xx
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Hello My Dearest .
Thanks for the mail,Immediately i got your email my feelings turn over on you and it seems you are the right man which i have been searching for to bring back the smile which i use to smile when my parent was still alive,For a good relationship to grow we need to trust each other and be honest with each other to achieve what we want to achieve well i am seeking for man which will be the flesh to my flesh and also the bone to my bone,It's true I have never seen you and we have never met,Never shaken Hands or even truly hugged and yet!I know for sure you care for me by the kindness that you give.And our keyboards keep us together doesn't matter where we live.So I am emailing you to put a smile on your face and to let you know in my heart you have a special place.The sun is always shining just above the cloudy haze,as we share friendship across an online maze.We express love and kindness without a face.It comes from deep inside our hearts from a special
place. Within our lives we share special dreams, unusual and unique,and it is with our keyboards that we speak.You are a friend of mine from the emails we exchange,I wouldn't know you on the street and it doesn't even seem strange.You have brightened my life with the thoughtfulness you show.Your words encourage me more than you could know.As people change and times keep changing too,one thing stays the same ~the way I feel for you.For this friendship we possess we owe a world of gratitude and debt,because we would not know each other if it wasn't for the net,I will want you to tell me your feelings about me and what you think we can do to achieve our goal,well i work in a hair dressing saloon here but i lost my job,if we can make it work Out fir Us i can relocate,I would love to ask you some few questions...
1: Are you a Good Christian and how strong is your faith in God and do u mind dating a christian lady like me?
2: Do you really think our conversation could be a way into something lasting for both of us?
3 How serious are you about we getting acquainted and hope you are ready for the task ahead,That's if truly you find me interesting and like someone that we could easily hit it off
4:I know you might be afraid of somethings which you think might be personal to you but if you don't mind me asking,What are those things.
That's it for now,I hope you read from you.
Love always.
Linder xxx
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Thanks for your email, it was really good to read from you... Hope everything is going well with you ? I was so happy to get an email from you, but am so I have been on the road 2 4 7 looking for a way out of here and now i have a good news for u,while searching of a way to get out of this damn country i was adviced by the policemen here that i should visit the embassy and when i got there i was referred to a traveling agent for my problem and the traveling agent told me that i will need my passport in other to leave this country, but i don't have a passport at the moment, cos my passport was stolen by the same armed robbers who killed mum. I got another serious threat this morning and i feel i should leave this damn country real soon.
So i asked her of a way out and she told me that i will need the sum of $495 to get my passport validated of which i don't have any money on me,so i would like to know if u can help me with the money, so the travelling agent can go ahead and help me with my passport re validation, then i can leave this country, so we can start a relationship.I would also like to know the name of the nearest airport to u cos u would be the one to pick me up at the airport of arrivals.
Linder cares xx
Hello,
Thank you for your wishes and i'm very grateful for been there to wish my day a happy one. but all the same you still dont talk about my present condition here in yemen concerning the balance i needed to pay for custom in releases of my goods here, i still have to let you realize is that i'm feeling helpless here and it's due to the sudden death of my dad that brings all this shit on me. i'm not daft neither an ingrate, i really commended your friendship and your love towards me and as God says love your brethren as yourself and another word of God says in all way be your brother's keeper which you have demonstrated once again i'm using this channel to say a very big thanks to you.
i'm not money freak, it's only because the tight corner i found myself this time around and i can see you as God sent, so why would i have money feelings for someone i know i'm going to spend the rest of my life with. hunny my love does not cost a thing, all i want you to know is that it's you that i needed in my life simply because you processed good quality of a matured man who can take good care of a good woman like me, but since you have started doubting me i have been thinking day and night for what i will be able to do to bail myself out of this situation and get myself down to you as i promised. i just want you to know that i have take a brilliant decision not to contact you anymore if asking for help will ridicule my reputation because i'm seriously in need of a little cash and it's keeping me away from home and not to celebrate my birthday in finland.
I was only trying to sort my way out if i could borrow 420 euro from you to enable me to clear the goods from custom and hand over to the company i'm to supply to so that i can have my payment and book my flight back to finland and not you could see i'm missing my birthday in finland and i told you this is my first birthday in my mom's land finland.
you made me doubt if i could count on you and rely on your shoulder because your message put sadness in my heart.
brilli
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Hello the pictures is nothing to appreciate about but the friendship to build with you is worth thanking you.
yes you are handsome and i'm very serious about this because i can not deceive how you look. what do you mean by if i'm really exist? do you doubt me?
and i told you earlier that i'm in yemen very closed to dubai to supply clothing materials to a company here and i have been here 2days after new year celebration in which i have been expecting my goods to arrived to yemen seaport so that i can be able to clear it from custom duty and my goods arrived yesterday afternoon but unfortunately i'm facing custom problem here because custom manager demanded 10% charged of my goods and i was able to pay him 7% (1,255 euro) and remain 3% (420 euro) as balance and i tried to beg him and pleaded yesterday that he should release the goods to me first and after i receive my payment from the company, i will pay him the balance but he said no i have to pay for the balance before i can clear my goods and the company also said they can not pay half of my payment before i hand over the goods but i can only be paid at the point of delivery of the goods and they are seriously in need of this goods. so i was confused now, i dont know what else to do. all my believe was that i will be able to clear the goods yesterday and have over to the company so that i can book my flight back to Finland yesterday evening to start a new week and now it's getting me delaying, i do not know how possible for me to back to finland today because today is weekend and Monday is my birthday, i needed to celebrate my birthday
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