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| First Name: |
Vera |
| Location: |
Russia, Novokuznetsk |
| Age: |
31 |
| Birth Date: |
10-10-1980 |
Letter 1
Hi ***
You have answered to my Craigslist post. I am glad that you have written.
I apologize for to not write earlier, I found your letter in a spam folder.
You have written that you have sent a picture, but it not so. Unfortunately
the picture is not present. Can I hope that you will send me the
picture again? And, of course I am real. I from the very beginning
have told that I am looking for the friend, man, and I am serious.
It is wonderful, that you have children. Likely you are a very happy man.
Probably first of all I should write the most important thing.
I hope and I think you are not very much afflicted that I live not in
your country (I think you already know about it). But I very much hope
that it does not frighten you, because I am the same lady like many
other ladies living in the different countries. I am the same person
with heart and soul. I very much am afraid that my nationality and my
residence will disappoint you and you will not write to me more, but at
the same time I sincerely hope that nationality and distinction of
cultures for you is not the most important things in a lady. Besides,
in the near future I am going to travel, possibly even to your country,
and who knows, maybe we would become the big friends or even more...
And if your interest is not limited by distance or borders, I really
will be very glad. My country is Russia. Moscow is the capital of
Russia. Now I live in village of Kamenolomni. It's a small settlement,
where live a few hundreds inhabitants. Probably if you want to have the
best understanding about where I live, I should tell you that my
village is located close to the big city - Novocherkassk. It is a city
located in area Rostov on Don - in a southern part of the European
Russia, near to such known cities as Rostov on Don, Taganrog, Shahty,
Novoshahtinsk. In the childhood I dreamed to be a translator of the
English language. I dreamed to work with our President to know all
state and international secrets! (smile). But the destiny has disposed
differently. I think our president doesn't need my services now because
I am gynecologist, and I think that our president would not allow me to
examine him (smile)! I began to get education in the comprehensive
school with a medical bias. After ending school I entered the Medical
University. Now I work in a clinic. I work as an gynecologist.
I already said that my name is Vera***, I promised to share
with you my picture, I fulfils my promise with worry and with pleasure.
In addition to a picture I want to tell that color of my hair is
light-light-brown, though sometimes I like to change color of hair.
I hope you are not disappointed very much that I am a light-brown,
because I know that all men love more blondes? It is a question!!! (smile).
My height is 5 feet 6 inches. My weight is 115 pounds. And of course
you should know that I am 30 years old. My birthday is October, 10, 1980.
I have no children. I understand that all people have various tastes and
interests, but I sincerely hope that my picture and my appearance will be
pleasant for you. But if my appearance doesn't conform to your tastes and
interests, I will understand you, of course. I the optimist at heart and
it's often help me in my life. I already adult woman; and I look at the
life with a philosophical shade. But as though I did not try to inspire
myself that I absolutely happy woman, I can't do it. I have fine lady
friend, I have job and my apartment. But there are things without which
people cannot be happy. And for me it's not material things. I have
written to you the first and it means that I am ready to share with you my
thoughts. I am very glad and grateful to you for that that you have
answered me. Anyhow, I hope that you, just as I, have interest in our
dialogue, and I will wait your answer. In the end of my letter I want to
ask you the most banal questions: what music you like, what movies you
prefer. These questions are really interesting for me because I like
American movies and American music very much. I with pleasure will tell to
you about it in my next letter if you really want to learn more about me.
Do you like your job, ***? Had you ever had experience in
correspondence with a friend from other country? Maybe you are more
skilled in this than I am? If you do not want to answer these questions,
please do not answer. It is simply my female curiosity. I will be
very grateful to you also if you will send me your pictures. I will be
happy to have your pictures in the computer. With the best regards.
Vera.
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Hi ****!
How your day? I hope you are glad to receive my letter because when
I have received your letter I really was glad. Many thanks. At once
I want to tell to you about my opportunities to write letters to you.
I write letters on my job because I have no the personal computer.
The computer is in an accounting department. Lady who works with a
computer will allow me to use a computer in my interests sometimes.
It depends not from me, unfortunately. I work from Monday till Friday.
It is Russian standard. Therefore I will not be able to write you and
to receive your letters Saturday and on Sunday. But sometimes I work
Saturday and even Sunday. In fact any pain hasn't schedules(smile).
Therefore, maybe I will be able to write letters in the Saturday or Sunday.
You have written such a big letter (smile). But all the same I am very
glad. Why you write nothing about yourself? You do not like to tell about
yourselves? I hope you will tell more about yourself, like I do it, OK?
If you have no desire to speak with me, tell me about it straight.
You have not answered any my questions and I feel that you are
not interested in dialogue with me at all. Am I right? I hope no…
I will hope to receive your picture soon. I will be very grateful to you!
Of course I am NOT bothered with your children. Children it's a
miracle. Children bring pleasure. I am very glad that you have the
children. And I do not understand how your children can bother me.
Up to your letter I even could not imagine that you can have any
doubts. But now I understand. But I never thought of similar things
though now I understand that you can really have doubts concerning my
intentions. Likely really many ladies have the purpose to find a good
life in your country using the American men. And I understand that you
are inclined to think that I pursue the same purposes. For me not
importantly - where to live, Russia, America or other country. It not
the main thing. The main thing is the love. The main thing - together
with the beloved. Your country is a great and very interesting country
with a high level of life. But I do not pursue benefit. In Russia it
is possible to be happy too. I have written to you, but not because
you live in America. You think that the fact that you live in America
means that you are happier than I? I do not think so. You speak as
though all people on our planet have only mercantile interests and
have no soul and heart. But you are wrong. I can be happy in any
place, in sultry desert or in impassable Siberia, in jungle of Africa
or in tent on the iceberg at Arctic Ocean. I live in the simplest
conditions and I do not have need in any luxury. I haven't anything
superfluous. I know the price of a life. But I cannot find happiness,
because I do not accept the position with which men here consider a
marriage and way of life in a marriage. But why you think that if I
write to you it means that I pursue any benefit? Why you cannot think
that I am simply unhappy here, in this culture of behavior, in culture
that Russian men have generated? You think that I speak with you to
get the visa? It is offensive for me. Your thoughts are absolutely
ungrounded. And if I would know that the fact that I live in Russia
while you in America would become for you the reason for doubts, I
would not began to write to you. But you react to my letter as if I
oblige you to something. I simply ask if you want to learn me, like I
want to learn you? If you are not interested, you can tell straight
about it and I will not disturb you any more.
Well, I will tell you more about my interests. I like various
types of music. I like to listen to classical music. I like Dire
Straits. I like very much Sting. But my favorite is Pink Floyd. They
are not similar to anybody. It is a great band. I like Queen, Madonna
and many others. In World there are a lot of great musicians. I like
Russian musicians but likely you do not know them. Have you ever heard
of Gorky Park? They are Russians who sang in America. OK, movie!
I like works of such Russian directors as Konchalovsky, Mikhalkov. My
favorite movies are "The Barber of Siberia" and "Burnt by the Sun".
It's masterpieces of the Russian cinema. The American movie in Russia
is considered like the greatest. I like American movies very much.
I like various films. I like dramas: Mystic River, American Beauty,
21 gramme, A Perfect World, One Flew Over Cuckoos Nest, The Shawshank
Redemption; fantasy: K-PAX, Star Wars, Sin City, the Lord of the Rings,
Dragonfly, melodramas: Love Actually, Scent Of a Woman, Forrest Gump,
Cast Away, The Notebook, I am Sam; sports movies: Raging Bull, Cinderella
Man; thrillers: Seven, Fight club, and many others, such as Godfather,
Deadman, Once upon a time in America, Family man, The Insider, Erin Brockovich,
Brave Heart, the Sixth Sense, Rainman, Groundhog Day. I like very much
movies Quentin Tarantino: Reservoir Dogs, Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill.
My favorite actors - Bruce Willis, Al Pacino, Robert De Niro, Kevin Costner,
Samuel L. Jackson, Uma Thurman, Tom Hanks, Kevin Spacey, Morgan Freeman,
Denzel Washington, Jack Nicholson, Clint Eastwood.
My hobby, if it's possible to tell so - the English language. I have
loved English long ago, when I studied at school. In Russia the program
of training necessarily includes foreign language, as a rule - English,
German or French. I have entered in group of the English language and I
am happy that I made it. I like English very much. After school,
I continued studying English at the university. I like this language. I
have been studying English language for 18 years. I want to know this
language perfectly. Of course I speak English. I only hope that you
would love my Russian accent that I have without any doubts. I know
that now I admit mistakes, but I hope you won't angry. But my biggest
predilection that will be with me during all my life is the knitting!
My mom has taught me to knit in the childhood, and now I knit sweaters,
jackets and waistcoats for myself and for my friends. I like to knit
very much, and I like woolen clothes very much. Basically all warm sweaters
that I have, I have made by my own hands. I do not know if in your country
the knitting is popular, but here it is very popular. What else to
tell about me? I have no children and I was never married, though of course
I was in relationship and even thought that it will lead me to the happy
future. But now I haven't anything except of bad and painful memoirs.
Steve, how you would describe your character? I never tried to
describe features of my character to somebody. I live with a smile on my
face and with hope in my heart. I think I can consider myself an optimist.
And maybe it has helped me to dare to write you. I saw a great deal in
my life, and for 30 years I have passed through a lot of vital tests.
And I know that I do not need many things to be happy. All I need is a
man, friend, soul-mate, love. And my life has led me to the fact that
now I seeks it in such way. And I do not think it is bad. How do you
think? I live honestly, and it brings pleasure to me. I know that
happiness not requires many things. Likely the main thing that does not
suffice me now is love. People without love cannot be happy. And I
speak not only about love between a man and a woman, but also about
love to a family for example. I have no family anymore and it really
oppresses me. I always recollect my family. ***, you meet your
family often? I very much want to return that time when I had family.
Are you looking for the soul mate or just a friend? What are you looking
for in a soulmate, Steve, if you are looking for? I hope to receive
your letter soon. Sincerely and with the best regards.
Vera.
*___________
Hi ***!
Today definitely good day - day of dialogue with my friend *** (Smile).
How it is wonderful to receive something that you really wait. And in a
case with me it of course your letter! Thank you! Today was a difficult day,
and dialogue with you removes my physical weariness. The quantity of
patients has considerably increased for some last years. Here many people
lives in the remote areas, impassable districts. They lives even without
an electricity in absolutely unsuitable conditions for a life. And it
certainly becomes the reason of a plenty of diseases. The sad fact.
Sometimes I want our president to live here instead of the Kremlin,
simply to understand what life is. Maybe in this case all wars would end
much faster? Forgive me that I tell you about our problems, simply I write
all what in my head. If you do not like to read about it - simply tell me.
Thank you for your picture. It is a fine picture. You are a strong and
handsome man. I very much like this picture. It is wonderful, when a
man combines force and charm. It happens so seldom. Forgive me for
my frank words. But I always speak what I think. I think there is nothing
bad in it. You have pleasant appearance and it is wonderful.
Thanks for the story about your ex. I understand your pain. You have
very kind heart. I am so sorry that your ex has betrayed you and your feelings.
What did you mean when you wrote that I can be not for real?
By the way *** I have asked you about your family in my last letter
because it really interestingly for me, as all my family has passed away.
My parents were military, mom was the military doctor, father was the
officer and we hadn't constant house because they very often got the
notice about new place of service, in places with the military conflict.
Therefore my childhood was not very cheerful. We lived in temporary
habitation outside of zone of conflict, therefore sometimes I did not see
my parents some weeks, and I was at home absolutely alone, being an
eight-year girl. Therefore since the early childhood I am able to cook,
sew, knit and do any heavy physical work. Now I absolutely agree that it's
correctly said that:"Thing that does not kill us makes us stronger".
Don't you agree ***? When father got new place of service near to
Kazakhstan, I have gone to study in the good medical university in Tomsk.
I lived in student's hotel on distance of 600 kilometers from my parents.
But we had meeting some times in the year. Later my parents got new place
of service and have left to live in the Kamenolomni. And I saw my
parents only once in one year. At university for the first time in my life
I have found a true friend (it is Maria) who is my best and reliable
friend till now. We have together passed through a hard time when have
been compelled to study and work in the evening and at night,- just to
support itself. After ending of university I was to get direction for
intern in Tomsk area, but I have received the letter from mom where she
informed that daddy has been killed in military collision. There is
nothing worse than to find out about death of the parent from the letter.
After that I began to live with mom because I was afraid to leave her lone
at such difficult period. One and a half year ago my mom has died of a heart
attack. I will not describe all pain and suffering which I had at that time.
Simply I want to tell that all ups and downs, all pleasures and
misfortunes that were in my life have led me to who I am now. The destiny
was not tender with me, but I am grateful to my destiny for my parents, I
am grateful to my destiny for my friend Maria, because it really a gift of
destiny. And I hope **** you are not angry with me that I talk to you
about it? It is my life and it is a part of me. And how you would learn me
more if I would not tell you it, really? And I as well would be glad to
learn more about you. Your life is very interesting to me. Are you
grateful to destiny for anything in your life ****? How often you
become tired on work? Do you like the nature, rivers and lakes, woods and
mountains? Are you religious person **** I will wait for your letter
so please write me soon! Sincerely and with the best regards.
Your friend (I hope) Vera.
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Hi****!
Today I had so much work that I was afraid that I wouldn't
have time to get your letter. And I have to say that it is distressed me.
But now I have found free time and very glad. Thank you for your kind
letter. My last letter was sad. That's why today I will try not to write
about sad things. How there were your day? Now I am smiling and have a
good mood, because today we found out that in two days into Rostov on Don
will be coming big exhibition of rare breeds of cats and dogs. It is great
news because at this exhibition there will be the best representatives of
rare breeds, collected from all of Russia. Everybody wants to visit this
exhibition because it will last only for several days. I like animals very
much. Can you imagine that I never was in a zoo? It is my dream. Have you
ever been in zoo? We have here several small menageries, but I dream to
see giraffes and rhinoceroses, hippopotamuses and bears. I never saw
tigers and elephants in real life. Have you ever seen a tiger or a bear?
The biggest animal I saw in my life is a horse. I like horses very much
and think that these are the most beautiful animals in the planet.
As matter of fact I have always dreamt to have some pets.
Unfortunately a horse hardly would be placed in my apartment (smile).
I dreamt to have cat or dog. But when I think that a little puppy will
wait for me home, alone, I feel pity. That's why I don't have pets.
By the way, once I visited an exhibition of wax figures of the well-known
people. It was interesting. I attached some pictures of that exhibition.
Thank you for the fine judicious informative, kind letter. I like to
learn you more. By reading your letters I start to understand your
heart, your soul. I am glad to find out your thoughts and reasoning's.
Thanks for sharing with me of your thoughts.
I sincerely regret about your father. I know what you feel, and if my words
can facilitate your sufferings in any way, I want you to know that I bring to
you my condolences and for me is a great honor to share your sufferings!
Our clinic is in Kamenolomni and named - rural clinic Kamenolomni.
No, I am not nurse or assistant. I am doctor. The nurse is lower level
of medical workers. I have got higher education at fine university,
and after long practice I got the doctor certificate. First I studied in
school with the medical bias, then six years at university and then four
years of doctor's practice before I got the certificate.
What else to tell about myself? I always very much get tired on
work. And though my work is not heavy physical work but like any
doctor, I am in constant concentration and an internal moral strenuousness,
because the health of people depends on my attention. I am always
waiting weekends with impatience. Weekends are the only one possibility
for me to get a rest and to get new forces. Weekends I spend variously.
Sometimes I want simply to rest in my apartment. I live alone in my
apartment. I have the one-room apartment with a toilet and kitchen.
I like my apartment - small and cozy. On weekends I always clean
apartment properly. I like purity. And though I always try to keep
clean my apartment, all the same, always in the weekends I find what
work to make in an apartment. But when I want really to relax I listen
to music or read books. I like to read books especially historical
novels about ancient Russia or other countries. I like to spend time
with my female friends. I have two best lady friends. When we meet, the
air is filling with laughter. We like to walk and to talk; we go to
cinema and walk in the park. If you want I can tell you about my friends.
I like very much to spend time in nature in the open air. I like the sea.
I live not very far away from the sea, but should tell that I have been
there very seldom. I like woods, mountains, lakes and the rivers more.
Camping in Russia is very popular. I adore to go to the forest and to
live in a tent though now I have such opportunity seldom. I like to
look at night illumination and cars headlights. I like very much to
look at the stars. In August our sky abound with stars. It is
incredible beautifully. I like to cook on the fire. There is nothing
more wonderful than when the fragrances of forest, mountain rivers and
smoke mix together in the air. I am romantic undoubtedly. I really like
to cook. I know that I do it well, because I started cooking from childhood.
My mother taught me many things including cooking. She said: "Lady who
can cook well doesn't have disadvantages and demerits, because tasty
food is a way to the man's heart (smile). May be she was right. We have
In Russia many national dishes, such as an okroshka, uha, borsch,
golubtsy, pelmeni. I am not sure if you know such dishes. These are
Russian national dishes. Also I like Italian food (pizza, spaghetti),
I like sea foods. Once I even tried sushi. What dishes do you prefer
&&&&&? Looking back at your life would you like to change something?
I have to finish. I hope my letter was not stodgy and uninteresting.
I will wait for your letter with impatience. I wish you peace and
kindness. Vera.
Hi, my dear friend *****
Thank you for your letter. Day by day I feel more need in getting your letter. My mood has become better again when I have got your letter. I should say that when I have good mood I hear gratitude from my patients much more often (smile). Therefore, now the health of a Russian women depend on your letters (smile again).
If I could change anything in my life right now, I think that I would not change anything. All largest and important acts in my life I realized, and did purposely, and if I burnt sometime, if something was impossible, if something was not got it only has given me the wisdom, it taught me to live in our complex and difficult world. Due to all difficulties that I had in a life, due to my up and down I am who I am now. Now I think, that if I had changed something in my past, probably I would not meet you never. And this thought forces me to be grateful to my past because my past has brought me to my present, and at present I have found such good friend as you! That is why I have no any regrets!
As for where I would like to live. For me it is not important where will be my home. I lived in different places and have understood that a place is not main thing. The main thing is small world created by people, a small world created inside of home, and has no value where your home is located. I always lived in simple conditions and always enjoyed what surrounded me. I like any nature, I like any weather, I am sociable person and any surrounding conditions very quickly becomes close and dear for me.
Because actually the full comfort to soul brings not surrounding world, but feelings, reciprocity, presence in a life of dear person.
Of course my doctor credentials would be accepted by the medical Board in any country of the world. Simply I should have some testing and practical examination, like in any other country of the world.
Treatment in all countries is based on uniform principles; we use the same medical equipment, the same medical products.
To my regret I could not visit an exhibition. Last days was a lot of work and I could not go to Rostov on Don. But it not death (smile). By the way, when I came to work today, my mood was bad, because my friend Maria fell ill and now she is in the hospital. The saddest thing is that she has birthday today. She is 30 years old today. Unfortunately she will spend her birthday in the hospital. But I have already talked with a doctor and I will be allowed to spend evening in her chamber.
In the evening I will bake a cake, I will buy balloons and go to the hospital. I hope very much that she will have good mood on her birthday.
She is my best friend. By the way, she works with me in the clinic.
Maria the doctor the otolaryngologist in our clinic. By the way, the otolaryngologist is the doctor an ear, a throat and a nose. As a matter of fact I have only two real friends - Maria and Oksana. Maria is a lady who is in the hospital. Oksana is our friend already for several years.
Oksana works as the conductor in a train and when she on work, we do not see her for some days. Maria and I are like sisters. We like to take a walk.
Usually we walk in the park. But also we like to spend time in Maria vegetable garden. She lives in an old wooden house. I don't know if you have seen such houses. It is the houses which were built before the Second World War, in the fortieth years. These are very old houses which don't have bath and running water. So people have to take water outside in the well. In modern world such conditions seem very terrible, but this is really so. We like to spend time in Maria vegetable garden.
There she grows the potato, tomatoes and cucumbers not to buy them in the market. Every winter Maria, Oksana and I together build a big Snowman in her vegetable garden, using a big snow spheres. We put carrot instead of nose, and potatoes instead of eyes. It is very funny. All neighbor's children came to see it. By the way, if we want to fool about, we put carrots not only instead of a nose but also below...(hint and smile) First time we made such Snowman 10 years ago. Since that time we do it every year. It is a tradition for us. We poured it with water to cover with ice. So it could stand for the whole winter.
I like Kamenolomni. Almost all people in our village know each other.
We have little buildings - maximum 2 floors. Maria says that she wants to live in a big city. I don't know where is better. Big city is a big traffic, fast rhythm of life, garlands of fires, lightning's of shop windows, high buildings, fountains, cinemas, parks, attractions, theatres.
It is wonderful, of course I like it. But our village is a fresh air, a lot of trees and birds, silent and comfortable, cozy, quiet place, no hubris and vanity inherent for big cities. We have a lot of small and large lakes and rivers. The places are very beautiful. If there was no criminality, it would be paradise. But alas, the criminal in small cities, as well as in the big cities is an integral part our life. Unfortunately the crime in Russia is on a very high level. But I don't want to tell about sad things. Several times, Maria, Oksana and I went to the festival of bard song. This is a place on the coast of the river where a lot of people come from all country. At night the coast is covered with thousand fires lights. The scene is a huge raft having the form of a guitar and established right on water and everybody who wants to sing together with famous bard singers, goes on this raft and starts to sing. And all thousands people become silent and listen to this singer even if he is absolutely unknown. It is the unique festival. I have to finish my letter.
I don't want but I have to do it. Today when I will come to Maria we will talk about you. She likes to ask about you and I like to tell her. I wanted to ask you what makes you happy ******? What was the best gift from a woman you got? Sincerely your, and with best wishes.
Vera.
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